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Problem: Should I use the front or the back door???

Q. I am a straight man who thoroughly enjoys sex with women. However, I have recently started fantasizing about sex with men. I don't think I'm gay but was just wondering whether you thought I should pursue it or just put it down the latest fantasy and see if it passes?

Here are a few of your answers, along with a couple from my colleagues. I hold no responsibility for some of the crap that they have come up with.

A1. Try it, if you don't like it, don't do it again.....I tried it, liked it but I don't mix what I do with men, with what I do with my wife.....I don't think that would work!!

A2. As a female I have fantasized about sleeping with members of the same sex so I guess it's the same for men. However I have never carried out these fantasies as I don't think the actual event would be as good as I had hoped. Stick to what you know if you're happy with it.

A3. I think you're gay mate. You're in denial. Men don't think about other men unless they're gay so you might as well pursue it and come out of the closet.